When the vows make you cry, and the light hits just right — that’s not just cinematic. That’s your life, love actually, briefly illuminated.

Whether you come from a deeply rooted cultural or religious tradition, an immigrant family, a blended background, or you’re carrying generational histories you’re still figuring out, weddings can feel like a crossroads of identity. A meeting place between your inheritance and what you envision for your future. Here are some thoughts on how to navigate all the beautiful parts of who you are.

If you’ve ever thought, “I want our wedding to feel like us. I don’t want a copy of what everyone else is doing,” you’re already on the right track. The truth is, the most memorable weddings aren’t the ones that go viral, they’re the ones where every detail feels personal and intentional. Here’s how to plan a wedding that actually reflects you, from the big decisions to the smallest details.

As a transplant still relatively new to the area, it’s been an absolute joy discovering these hidden DMV gems. If you're still searching for that perfect spot, I truly hope that for couples exploring location and venue options, this can be a helpful starting point.